Honestly, unless you feel the need to power things up, you can probably just show up and go in with the Mons you currently have. Typically, EX raids will draw a decent sized group of people, so you should have more than enough to take Mewtwo down. Also, for the most part, people don't tend to exclude others at EX raids, so you shouldn't have any issues getting in on the action with the others who show up.
My best advice to you is this: show up early to the raid, and try to chat with others there (so they know the two of you are also there for the raid). Often times, people will start the raid as soon as it hatches unless they're waiting on others they know will be arriving late.
Good luck, and I hope both you and your kid catch Mewtwo! Be sure to take your time on the catch sequence and use the trick to freeze the circle in order to minimize the number of balls that get dodged or batted away.