I think that you should consider using the breakpoint calculator to estimate what you would use the pokemon to do. That will give you an idea of how vital one stat is versus the other.
With the emphasis on raiding, and easier gyms, I find the attack stat to be the most important, because most of my pokes die due to a large burst of damage when the boss uses his special. So squeezing out a bit more damage is probably twice as important?
Either way, in the end, do what makes you happy! Because, if they change things around whenever they have gen 3, the idea of best might change again!