Got robbed from getting an ex pass

So last night my little brother (level 28) and my mother (level 25) both got ex raid passes (for a gym at a cemetary of all places) and i wondered how they both got an ex pass and i didn't.

Then i remembered back in like the first week of september was the last time i raided at that gym. There were 7 of us waiting to attempt a raikou raid and since we didnt think the 7 of us could take it down (seeing as only 3 of us were over level 30) so we waited until 3 min left on the raid boss timer to go battle.

Naturally i thought i had to go super try hard and didn't bring a snorlax or blissy to anchor and didn't attempt any dodges cuz i didn't think we'd have enough time to beat it.

Well i ended up fainting out, and when i tried to go back in that raid i got kicked and my app crashed. When i finally reloaded they had taken the raid boss down, the timer for the raikou had expired so i didn't get to go back in. (You know how it will usually let you back if you crash as long as the raid boss hasn't expired from the gym)

So at the time i thought i just lost a chance at a raikou, items and xp from not winning the raid, and now a couple weeks later, it also cost me an EX raid pass... sucks to suck.

I think ex passes must have been given out for people who raided at the gym this month, because i caught my pokedex lugia at that gym before.

Sorry, just complaining. Still can't believe my mom will end up with a mewtwo before i do haha.