To address both points:
While Dialga and Palkia are likely to join Rayquaza in the top echelon of dragon type attackers, the answer is the same as most of the Gen 4 speculation; it depends on their moves. While DT/OR Dialga fits between Salamence and Rayquaza for dragon type DPS a DB/DC one is below a few variants of Dragonite still.
I think part of what makes dragon type generalists popular is that dragon type moves are resisted by very few, relatively uncommon types. In my area anyway I don't see a whole lot of fairies on gym defense despite resisting the four-armed fister and steel types are usually kept away for that reason.
My mind is blanking right now so I could be forgetting others but the only Pokemon Gen 4 introduces that raises my eyebrow about the defence scene is Togekiss. While it slows down Machamp *and* dragon type generalists, I don't think a single Pokemon introduced to the gym scene will be enough to heavily shake things up. At most, people's gym teams will now pack a Raikou if they don't already.